Co-Regulated K-9s - San Diego, CA

Does your dog’s behavior leave you feeling stressed, embarrassed, or overwhelmed? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself. I help dog parents like you create calm, connection, and confidence with their pups through a compassionate and science-backed approach.

I’m Ashley, the trainer and coach behind Co-Regulated K9s. For over 15 years, I’ve worked with dogs of all ages, breeds, and backgrounds, alongside 13 years in the psychology and mental health field. My unique background allows me to understand not just the dog’s behavior, but also the human experience that goes along with it. Because let’s face it: our dogs can push our buttons, trigger our emotions, and even make us doubt ourselves. That’s why my method focuses on co-regulation—teaching both you and your dog how to regulate emotions, build trust, and communicate more effectively.

Unlike cookie-cutter obedience programs, I don’t believe in controlling dogs into submission or ignoring their needs. Instead, I focus on helping you and your pup work together, creating resilience, predictability, and joy in everyday life. Whether your dog struggles with reactivity, anxiety, or big feelings that seem hard to handle, I’ll guide you step by step with tools you can actually use in real life—not just in a training session.

I offer both in-person coaching in San Diego and online training for dog parents anywhere. No matter the format, sessions are personalized to your goals and your dog’s unique personality. Together, we’ll tackle challenges like:

Reactivity on walks

Separation anxiety

Overexcitement or barking

Fearful or anxious behaviors

Strengthening communication and focus

My clients often come to me feeling defeated, but they leave with a sense of relief, hope, and confidence in their ability to support their dogs. Many share that the process not only transformed their dog’s behavior, but also shifted their own mindset—making daily life feel lighter, calmer, and more enjoyable.

Here’s what sets Co-Regulated K9s apart:

Experience that bridges dogs and humans – My psychology background and professional training certifications give me a holistic perspective.

Compassionate coaching – I meet you where you are, without judgment.

A focus on relationships – Behavior improves when the bond improves.

Practical, doable steps – Strategies that fit your lifestyle, not just theory.

Training with me isn’t about chasing perfection—it’s about progress, connection, and helping your dog thrive as the beloved family member they are.

So if you’re ready to:
✔ Reduce stress and frustration
✔ Better understand your dog’s needs
✔ Build calm and confidence together
✔ Finally enjoy life with your pup again

…I’d love to work with you. Let’s take the first step toward the relationship you’ve always wanted with your dog.

Reach out today to schedule a session—I can’t wait to meet you and your pup!